I love spending time with preschoolers. They make me laugh. They, also have an a remarkable way of looking at the world and life. Preschoolers have a way of stating things simply and matter-of-factly. They remind me of what is really important. So, here is a list of what I have learned from preschoolers:
-sticking your tongue out of the side of your mouth really does help you use scissors to cut straight lines (try it and see if it helps you concentrate!)
-it’s important to keep trying to do it and not give up – even if it makes a big mess! (even a REALLY big mess)
-doing the “I have to pee dance” really does help you hold it longer, so you can finish what you are doing
-hearing the story of when you were born never gets old
-grandparents can fix anything that’s not right and they know all the answers
-you can’t get enough of : “I knew you could it!” or “I love you”
-when someone asks you a question, you can answer it honestly
-screaming “no!” and stomping your feet really does help you feel better when you can’t get your way
-eat when your hungry, sleep when you’re tired
-when mom and dad fight, it’s scary and makes you want to cry – even if they don’t think it is a big deal
-if someone tells you to shut-up, you remember that they don’t want to hear what you have to say
-if someone tells you “not now”, you remember and are waiting
-bugs, animals, sun, moon, dirt, and water are all amazing things
-the more we can touch “amazing things”, the happier it makes us
- when people die, we are sad, but they are still with us and are in heaven
- you can still talk to to the people you love even if they aren’t here
-if someone plays with you, that someone is now your best friend
-blowing bubbles can always make you feel happy
-you don’t forget when people hurt you
-you can forgive when people hurt you
-you can love people who hurt you
Children are amazing. It seems like at times God puts words in their mouths that we just need to hear in that moment. I can’t tell you how many times a child has said something that made me say “ Thank you, God. That’s just what I needed to hear today!” Listen to them - you’ll see.