Trauma and kids

I am often asked by adults how to tell if a child has been traumatized by an event. The main factor in determining if a child has been traumatized is how the child has interpreted and coped with the event not necessarily the event itself. I have seen children that have witnessed horrific events and yet seem to be functioning and feeling well. Other times, children adjusting to typical life...

Difference between child and adult counseling

There is a reason people seeking counseling for a child need someone who specializes in children. Children have different needs than adults. Most often, children are not the ones asking for therapy. Parents, teachers, and/or caregivers have usually expressed concerns and then one of the adults makes the appointment. I have NEVER had a child call to make an appointment and I would never expect...

Wondering what to do with your kids during visitation?

Not all activities have to cost money! The most important thing you can give your kids is your time. The following is a list of fun activities or ideas to try: -Game night (board games or even get interested in playing their video games with them). -Cooking. Try making a new food together. Pick out the recipe together, make a shopping list, go to the store, and work together to make...

What is filial therapy?

Filial therapy was developed during the 1960’s by Dr’s Bernard and Louise Guerney as a treatment for children with emotional and behavioral problems. While this therapy is used to overcome problems, it also helps prevent problems. Even if you do not have any current concerns regarding your child’s emotional health, this therapy can benefit your family. Filial therapy is based on...